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AN ABUSIVE INTIMATE RELATIONSHIP
CAN HAVE 9 KEY WARNING SIGNS

Whether it's physical, sexual, psychological, or financial, ABUSE IS ABUSE. Intimate Partner Violence can come with warning signs. And if we're all aware of those signs, it's possible to act and stop it.

1,7 MILLION PEOPLE TRAINED TO RECOGNIZE THE WARNING SIGNS OF ABUSE SINCE 2020

1,7 MILLION PEOPLE TRAINED TO RECOGNIZE THE WARNING SIGNS OF ABUSE SINCE 2020

Graphic with text "N°1 IGNORING" and a prohibited heart symbol on a dark blue background.

N°1
Ignoring

Red prohibited heart icon with a toggle switch button below.


EXAMPLE :

A PARTNER DELIBERATELY LEAVING MESSAGES UNANSWERED OR TURNING OFF NOTIFICATIONS AS A FORM OF SILENT PUNISHMENT AFTER A DISAGREEMENT.

Graphic with text "N°2 BLACKMAILING" and a red heart split with check and cross symbols on a dark blue background.

N°2
BLACKMAILING

Red heart split by a dashed line with check and cross icons.


EXAMPLE :

A PARTNER THREATENING TO EXPOSE SECRETS, PERSONAL DETAILS, OR PRIVATE MESSAGES FOLLOWING A CONFLICT.

Graphic with text "N°3 UMILIATION" and a red heart with a tear-drop, surrounded by "HA HA HA" text on a dark blue background.

N°3
HUMILIATION



Red heart icon with a dark blue tear-drop on a white background.


EXAMPLE :

A PARTNER INSULTING YOU OR MAKING FUN OF YOU IN A TARGETED, REPETITIVE WAY THAT IS DESIGNED TO MAKE YOU FEEL SMALL OR SELF-CRITICAL.

Graphic with text "N°4 MANIPULATION" and a red heart as a marionette puppet on a dark blue background.

N°4
MANIPULATION

Red heart marionette puppet suspended by white strings on a white background.


EXAMPLE :

A PARTNER USING GUILT, PLAYING ON YOUR INSECURITIES, OR USING OTHER SUBTLE STRATEGIES TO PURPOSEFULLY SWAY AND DIRECT YOUR EMOTIONS.

Graphic with text "N°5 JEALOUSY", a hand gripping a red heart, and speech bubbles on a dark blue background.

N°5
JEALOUSY

Red heart icon being gripped by a dark hand with "HELLO!" and "..." speech bubbles.


EXAMPLE :

A PARTNER ACCUSING YOU AND INCESSANTLY INTERROGATING YOU ABOUT WHY YOU LIKED A POST, FOLLOWED SOMEONE, OR VIEWED A STORY.

Graphic with text "N°6 CONTROL" and a red heart trapped behind black bars on a dark blue background.

N°6
CONTROL

Red heart icon with signal waves on a white background.


EXAMPLE :

A PARTNER DICTATING WHAT YOU CAN WEAR, WHERE YOU CAN GO, OR WHAT YOU CAN POST ONLINE, GRADUALLY INSTILLING FEAR AND ASSERTING AUTHORITY OVER YOUR DAILY LIFE.

Graphic with text "N°7 INTRUSION" and a red heart-shaped open padlock on a dark blue background.

N°7
INTRUSION

Red heart-shaped open padlock icon on a white background.


EXAMPLE :

A PARTNER DEMANDING YOUR PHONE PASSWORDS, CHECKING YOUR MESSAGES, OR TRACKING YOUR REAL-TIME LOCATION TO INTRUDE INTO YOUR PRIVATE SPACE AND MONITOR YOUR ACTIONS.

Graphic with text "N°8 ISOLATION" and a small red heart inside a large black circle on a dark blue background.

N°8
ISOLATION

Red heart icon centered on a solid black background.


EXAMPLE :

A PARTNER PRESSURING OR FORCING YOU TO CUT TIES WITH YOUR FRIENDS AND FAMILY, GRADUALLY ISOLATING YOU FROM YOUR SUPPORT SYSTEM AND LOVED ONES.

Graphic with text "N°9 INTIMIDATION" and a shaking red heart on a dark blue background.

N°9
INTIMIDATION

Shaking red heart icon with white zigzag lines on a black background.


EXAMPLE :

A PARTNER USING ACTIONS, WORDS, OR GESTURES TO INSTILL FEAR, KEEPING YOU CONSTANTLY WALKING ON EGGSHELLS.

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